Pokra\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed neoti\u0161t\u011bn\u00e9ho rozhovoru pro Marianne d\u00edl 2\/4<\/p>\n
Jak je to s p\u0159echodov\u00fdmi ritu\u00e1ly u kluk\u016f a jak\u00e9 a kdy d\u011blat? V kolika letech? V pubert\u011b?<\/strong><\/p>\n P\u0159echodov\u00e9 ritu\u00e1ly se t\u00fdkaj\u00ed chlapc\u016f kte\u0159\u00ed jsou ji\u017e v pubert\u011b a kladou si z\u00e1sadn\u00ed ot\u00e1zky. D\u0159\u00edve nebo pozd\u011bji p\u0159echodov\u00fd ritu\u00e1l chlapec s\u00e1m vyhled\u00e1 – n\u011bkdy si ritu\u00e1l vyhled\u00e1 on jeho. Nechceme aby se tak stalo skrze uskakov\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159ed jedouc\u00edm vlakem nebo p\u0159es experimenty s n\u00e1vykov\u00fdmi l\u00e1tkami. Jindy p\u0159ijde \u00faraz nebo nemoc kter\u00e9 se dalo p\u0159edej\u00edt a kter\u00e1 zp\u016fsob\u00ed to pov\u011bstn\u00e9 setk\u00e1n\u00ed se smrt\u00ed. \u0158\u00edzen\u00e9 p\u0159echodov\u00e9 ritu\u00e1ly jsou zdravou a prosp\u011b\u0161nou verz\u00ed vstupu do sv\u011bta dosp\u011bl\u00fdch. Zde je h\u00e1\u010dek – co to znamen\u00e1 sv\u011bt dosp\u011bl\u00fdch? Pr\u00e1ce, hypot\u00e9ka, rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed? <\/span><\/p>\n V kmenov\u00fdch spole\u010denstv\u00edch znamenalo pat\u0159it mezi dosp\u011bl\u00e9 moci si vybrat \u017eenu, \u00fa\u010dastnit se poradn\u00edch kruh\u016f, ritu\u00e1l\u016f, chodit s mu\u017ei na lov, ob\u00fdvat mu\u017eskou \u010d\u00e1st spole\u010dn\u00e9 ch\u00fd\u0161e. U n\u00e1s jsme si to op\u011bt trochu zkomplikovali a ne\u017e \u010dlov\u011bk dostuduje vysokou a najde si pr\u00e1ci tak nebude hned tou\u017eit po zakl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed rodiny aby p\u0159edal svou moudrost dal\u0161\u00ed generaci. Zast\u00e1v\u00e1m n\u00e1zor, \u017ee prvn\u00ed p\u0159echodov\u00fd ritu\u00e1l je dobr\u00e9 p\u0159ipravit se souhlasem mlad\u00edka kolem 14 roku. Jedn\u00e1 se o symbolick\u00e9 ale d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 gesto i kdy\u017e nebude stejn\u00e9 intenzity jako bolestiv\u00e9 a tranzovn\u00ed ritu\u00e1ly u p\u0159\u00edrodn\u00edch n\u00e1rod\u016f. Stejn\u011b tak u mlad\u00fdch d\u00edvek je prvn\u00ed menstruace znamen\u00edm \u017ee ji\u017e nen\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b a zaslou\u017e\u00ed si oslavit a z\u00edskat po\u017eehn\u00e1n\u00ed od nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00edch \u017een\/sester.<\/p>\n A\u0165 u\u017e zvol\u00ed otec\/str\u00fdc\/kmotr jak\u00fdkoliv druh ritu\u00e1lu jako nap\u0159. den i v\u00edce dn\u016f s\u00e1m v p\u0159\u00edrod\u011b s j\u00eddlem a pit\u00edm nebo i jako p\u016fst, osam\u011blou cestu, p\u0159echod p\u0159es \u017ehav\u00e9 uhl\u00ed, atd. v z\u00e1v\u011bru ritu\u00e1lu p\u0159i oslavn\u00e9 hostin\u011b \u010dek\u00e1 otec a p\u0159ijme (bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u011b) syna jako mu\u017ee a tak k n\u011bmu p\u0159istupuje (ji\u017e \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 v\u00fdchovn\u00e9 tresty). P\u0159i pr\u00e1ci jakou d\u011bl\u00e1m vy\u0161le otec syna na hory ve skupin\u011b ciz\u00edch r\u016fzn\u011b star\u00fdch mu\u017e\u016f kte\u0159\u00ed se akce \u00fa\u010dastn\u00ed a ti s n\u00edm jednaj\u00ed jako se sebou rovn\u00fdm, projdou stejn\u00fdm uskal\u00edm nam\u00e1hav\u00e9 cesty. V jin\u00e9 verzi jede t\u00e1ta se synem spole\u010dn\u011b a otec se zuby nehty p\u0159ekon\u00e1 aby o syna pe\u010doval a nesna\u017eil se mu cestu uleh\u010dit.<\/p>\n Ka\u017ed\u00fd rok jezd\u00edme na ritu\u00e1l chozen\u00ed po \u017ehav\u00e9m uhl\u00ed a dobrovoln\u011b ze sv\u00e9 v\u016fle zde p\u0159es uhl\u00ed p\u0159ejdou i d\u011bti, cel\u00fd p\u0159echod berou velmi v\u00e1\u017en\u011b i sou\u010dasn\u011b d\u011btsky lehce a radostn\u011b. V\u0161echny p\u0159ejdou bez ujmy.<\/p>\n Je\u0161t\u011b zm\u00edn\u00edm cestov\u00e1n\u00ed, kde je skv\u011bl\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost poznat trochu v\u00edc o sob\u011b, lidech a sv\u011bt\u011b – low cost, stopem, na kole. Hodn\u011b obl\u00edben\u00e9 jsou nyn\u00ed pout\u011b, nap\u0159. do Santiaga<\/p>\n<\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Pokra\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed neoti\u0161t\u011bn\u00e9ho rozhovoru pro Marianne d\u00edl 2\/4 Jak je to s p\u0159echodov\u00fdmi ritu\u00e1ly u kluk\u016f a jak\u00e9 a kdy d\u011blat? V kolika letech? V pubert\u011b? P\u0159echodov\u00e9 ritu\u00e1ly se t\u00fdkaj\u00ed chlapc\u016f kte\u0159\u00ed jsou ji\u017e v pubert\u011b a kladou si z\u00e1sadn\u00ed ot\u00e1zky. D\u0159\u00edve nebo pozd\u011bji p\u0159echodov\u00fd ritu\u00e1l chlapec s\u00e1m vyhled\u00e1 – n\u011bkdy si ritu\u00e1l vyhled\u00e1 on jeho. 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