{"id":352,"date":"2014-08-21T20:29:35","date_gmt":"2014-08-21T19:29:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.hranicar-raje.cz\/?p=282"},"modified":"2019-07-04T04:48:10","modified_gmt":"2019-07-04T02:48:10","slug":"laskyplne-nesetrit-sve-deti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/janharnos.com\/blog\/laskyplne-nesetrit-sve-deti\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u00e1skypln\u011b ne\u0161et\u0159it sv\u00e9 d\u011bti"},"content":{"rendered":"

R\u00e1d bych napsal shrnut\u00ed prob\u011bhl\u00e9 akce, kter\u00e9 jsem se aktivn\u011b z\u00fa\u010dastnil. Byl\u00a0j\u00edm dvoudenn\u00ed survival – pu\u0165\u00e1k pro d\u011bti v\u00a0r\u00e1mci akce „Pr\u00e1zdniny na statku“ v\u00a0Sulkovci, organizovan\u00fd Blankou Sud\u00edkovou. Po p\u0159\u00edjezdu m\u011b \u010dekala skupina\u00a0d\u011bt\u00ed od \u010dty\u0159 let a\u017e do v\u011bku n\u00e1ctilet\u00fdch praktikant\u016f. Celkem patn\u00e1ct d\u011bt\u00ed a\u00a0dva t\u00e1tov\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Nejstar\u0161\u00edmu praktikantovi jsme uleh\u010dili jeho zavazadlo o\u00a0teleskopick\u00fd obu\u0161ek a paralyz\u00e9r a mohli jsme vyrazit. Co\u00a0d\u011btem\u00a0uk\u00e1zat, co\u00a0jim p\u0159edat?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Akce s\u00a0d\u011btmi jsou pro m\u011b nejn\u00e1ro\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, p\u0159\u00edpravy a pl\u00e1nov\u00e1n\u00ed m\u011b stoj\u00ed\u00a0nejv\u00edce energie. R\u00e1d bych je vedl co nejl\u00e9pe a v\u00a0tom kr\u00e1tk\u00e9m \u010dase p\u0159edal to\u00a0nejlep\u0161\u00ed. Dob\u0159e si pamatuji l\u00e9ta m\u00e9ho d\u011btstv\u00ed. Co bych cht\u011bl za\u017e\u00edt j\u00e1?<\/strong> Co je\u00a0pro d\u011bti opravdu d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9? Co je pro n\u011b p\u0159\u00edli\u0161?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nitern\u011b vn\u00edm\u00e1m pot\u0159ebu ne\u0161et\u0159it je, neschov\u00e1vat toho p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 a\u017e budou star\u0161\u00ed\u00a0a v\u00edc vydr\u017e\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

V\u00a0sou\u010dasn\u00e9 m\u00edrumilovn\u00e9 kultu\u0159e \u010cesk\u00e9 republiky, v\u00a0tom v\u00fd\u017eivn\u00e9m\u00a0humusu, nav\u00edc v\u00a0dob\u011b, kdy je t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 v\u0161e mo\u017en\u00e9 se nakonec vytr\u00e1c\u00ed smysl\u00a0bojov\u00e9ho ducha, hnac\u00ed motor p\u0159i beznad\u011bji, vy\u010derp\u00e1n\u00ed, skryt\u00e9 zdroje v\u00fdbu\u0161n\u00e9\u00a0s\u00edly p\u0159i p\u0159ekon\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed ne\u010dekan\u00fdch obt\u00ed\u017e\u00ed a na z\u00e1v\u011br uzn\u00e1n\u00ed vlastn\u00ed mali\u010dkosti\u00a0proti s\u00edle p\u0159\u00edrody, Vesm\u00edru a moci Tvo\u0159itele, tedy tomu nejvy\u0161\u0161\u00edmu nad n\u00e1mi,\u00a0kolem n\u00e1s i v\u00a0n\u00e1s. I v\u00a0p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b d\u011bt\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Tato akce nepotvrdila tuhle krut\u011b zn\u00edc\u00ed tezi, i kdy\u017e ter\u00e9n, podm\u00ednky by byly\u00a0n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 i pro kdejak\u00e9ho z\u00a0otylej\u0161\u00edch ned\u011bln\u00edch n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvn\u00edk\u016f n\u00e1kupn\u00edho domu\u00a0Olympia, kter\u00fd by byl uchv\u00e1cen jen tak v\u00a0sand\u00e1lech a vyvr\u017een na tom kopci u\u00a0V\u00edrsk\u00e9 p\u0159ehrady ani\u017e by v\u011bd\u011bl kde je.<\/p>\n

D\u011bti nemaj\u00ed v\u00edce dn\u016f \u017eivota jako my dosp\u011bl\u00ed, jako my rodi\u010de. Dojdou do bodu,\u00a0kdy i ony pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b budou balit sv\u00e9ho potomka na t\u00e1bor nebo akci s\u00a0\u010dlov\u011bkem jako jsem j\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Co jim tedy p\u0159edat v\u00a0kr\u00e1tk\u00e9m \u010dase d\u011btstv\u00ed?<\/strong> Za sebe\u00a0\u0159\u00edk\u00e1m v\u00a0prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b vytrvalost, st\u0159\u00eddmost a um\u011bn\u00ed rozhodovat o sob\u011b.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pro\u010d je\u00a0nutn\u00e9 aby d\u011bti co nejd\u0159\u00edve pochopily \u010das, hodnotu a c\u00edl? Pro\u010d se pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed\u00a0co nejd\u0159\u00edve zasadit na sv\u00e9 m\u00edsto, pochopit svou roli v\u00a0soukol\u00ed? A ne\u010dekal\u00a0bych to samoz\u0159ejm\u011b od \u010dty\u0159let\u00fdch. Ka\u017ed\u00fd se nerod\u00ed jako Osho. Nejlep\u0161\u00ed\u00a0zku\u0161enosti b\u00fdvaj\u00ed mnohdy i ty nejm\u00e9n\u011b p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9. T\u0159eba v\u00a0\u0161esti letech b\u011b\u017eet\u00a0t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 bez odpo\u010dinku africkou bu\u0161\u00ed p\u0159ed povstali s\u00a0AK-47 (p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh b\u011b\u017ece Usain\u00a0Bolta). \u017debrat v\u00a0ulic\u00edch Dill\u00ed. V\u00a0deseti nosit v\u00a0\u0161\u00e1tku na z\u00e1dech sv\u00e9ho\u00a0sourozence a zvl\u00e1dat i pom\u00e1hat matce s\u00a0jin\u00fdmi \u010dinnostmi.<\/p>\n

D\u011bti jakoby nic nemus\u00ed a v\u016fbec to slovo \u201emuset\u201c.<\/strong> V\u017edy jsem ho nesn\u00e1\u0161el.\u00a0D\u0159\u00edve pro m\u011b byl ide\u00e1ln\u00ed \u010das naj\u00edt a za\u0159\u00eddit si chv\u00edle kdy nic nemus\u00edm a\u00a0v\u011bt\u0161inou je prost\u011b profl\u00e1kat. Dnes vn\u00edm\u00e1m sv\u016fj \u010das o pozn\u00e1n\u00ed l\u00e9pe \u2013 r\u00e1d bych\u00a0m\u011bl dostatek \u010dasu a energie na v\u0161echny \u010dinnosti, kter\u00e9 bych r\u00e1d a pokud je\u00a0n\u011bco nad r\u00e1mec, vy\u0159ad\u00edm to, ned\u011bl\u00e1m, ale nelituji toho.<\/p>\n

M\u00e9 d\u011bti pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed jasn\u00e9 hranice, \u00fakoly a \u0161kolu jak nakl\u00e1dat s\u00a0\u010dasem. Chci,\u00a0aby znaly \u0161k\u00e1lu mo\u017enost\u00ed jak\u00e9 maj\u00ed ve sv\u00fdch rukou, pokud p\u0159estanou plnit\u00a0povinnosti, ale za\u010dnou \u201emene\u017eovat\u201c sv\u016fj \u017eivot.\u00a0 Mysl\u00edte si, \u017ee p\u0159eh\u00e1n\u00edm?<\/p>\n

Zp\u011bt k\u00a0pu\u0165\u00e1ku. D\u011bti si nesly sva\u010dinu, pit\u00ed, minim\u00e1ln\u00ed KPZ, pl\u00e1\u0161t\u011bnku a\u00a0n\u011bkolik dal\u0161\u00edch v\u011bc\u00ed. Pozorovaly, hr\u00e1ly si a hodn\u011b jedly. Ti nejmen\u0161\u00ed ve\u010der\u00a0lehly do spac\u00e1k\u016f a spaly, v\u00edc nebylo co \u0159e\u0161it, proto\u017ee ch\u016fva a m\u00e1mina sukn\u011b\u00a0prost\u011b nebyla pobl\u00ed\u017e a \u0161lo to. \u0160lo to a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 skv\u011ble, abych nepsal tento\u00a0text. \u0160lo to perfektn\u011b a \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 z\u00a0d\u011bt\u00ed nepadlo dehydratac\u00ed, hladem,\u00a0vy\u010derp\u00e1n\u00edm, hr\u016fzou, chladem atd.<\/p>\n

Jak je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee toho tolik snesou a\u00a0pozorovateli se zd\u00e1, \u017ee si to vlastn\u011b u\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed? Jsme \u0161patn\u00ed rodi\u010de, kdy\u017e je\u00a0obklopujeme dostatkem, komfortem, pro d\u011bti mil\u00fdm prost\u0159ed\u00edm, t\u00edm \u017ee jakoby\u00a0nic nemusej\u00ed?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Co kdy\u017e z\u00edtra vznikne situace, kdy bude muset m\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b b\u011b\u017eet\u00a0n\u011bkolik dn\u016f p\u0159ed ozbrojenci? \u017de je to jedno, \u017ee zda p\u0159e\u017eijeme nebo ne, nen\u00ed\u00a0na n\u00e1s ale na vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed moci, osudu?<\/p>\n

D\u011bti pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed, abychom m\u00e9n\u011b filtrovali to, co k\u00a0nim pou\u0161t\u00edme. Vid\u00ed m\u011b\u00a0\u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho i nasran\u00e9ho, vid\u00ed m\u011b sed\u0159en\u00e9ho a j\u00e1 jim dop\u0159eju p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost v\u00edce\u00a0si pro\u017e\u00edvat \u017eivot jak\u00fd je. Hr\u00e1t si, ale i pracovat. Kdy\u017e sb\u00edraj\u00ed houby na\u00a0pu\u0165\u00e1ku, maj\u00ed je v\u00a0pol\u00e9vce a rozum\u00ed tomu. L\u00e1skypln\u011b je ne\u0161et\u0159it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee\u00a0takhle to m\u016f\u017ee sta\u010dit. Dcerka nemus\u00ed s\u00a0v\u011bdry pro vodu a je to dob\u0159e, r\u00e1d\u00a0bych aby co nejd\u0159\u00edve v\u011bd\u011bla, \u017ee jin\u00e1 hol\u010di\u010dka s\u00a0v\u011bdry jde a nep\u0159ijde j\u00ed to\u00a0divn\u00e9. \u00a0Chci, aby ob\u011b dcerky v\u011bd\u011bly, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd den je dar, \u017ee \u017eivot je dar a\u00a0\u017ee \u010das ur\u010duje n\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot a my ho napl\u0148ujeme plody, kter\u00e9 jsou d\u00edky Bohu\u00a0trpkosladk\u00e9.<\/strong> Kdy\u017e budou cht\u00edt n\u011bco d\u011blat, pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b jim u\u017e ne\u0159eknu, \u017ee\u00a0jsou na to je\u0161t\u011b mal\u00e9. Mal\u00e9 ano, ale pouze vzr\u016fstem. Vnit\u0159n\u011b jsou stejn\u011b\u00a0velk\u00e9, jako kdokoliv z\u00a0n\u00e1s dosp\u011bl\u00fdch i v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed. Pus\u0165me je \u017e\u00edt.<\/p>\n

Jeden t\u00e1ta, po kter\u00e9m cht\u011bli jeho synkov\u00e9 koupit v\u00e1le\u010dnou hru, \u0161el a koupil\u00a0letenky do Izraele a nav\u0161t\u00edvil s\u00a0nimi p\u00e1smo Gaza a oni vid\u011bli v\u00e1lku. Nyn\u00ed\u00a0hru u\u017e necht\u011bj\u00ed a mluv\u00ed o zku\u0161enosti i nutnosti v\u00e1\u017eit si a pe\u010dovat o m\u00edr se\u00a0sv\u00fdmi spolu\u017e\u00e1ky a kamar\u00e1dy.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Dobr\u00e1 v\u00fdchova je o jasn\u00e9m \u017eivotn\u00ed stylu, kter\u00fd sm\u011b\u0159uje k\u00a0osobn\u00ed moci,\u00a0soucitu, tvo\u0159en\u00ed v\u00a0pr\u00e1ci a dobru, kter\u00e9 d\u011bti vid\u00ed zhmotn\u011bn\u00e9, \u017eiv\u00e9 a\u00a0rostouc\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pokud \u0161et\u0159\u00edm sebe a \u201esv\u00e9 dny\u201c, jako mu\u017e i jako otec, i kdyby n\u00e1m\u00a0\u201eohe\u0148 pl\u00e1l ve vlasech\u201c. Pokud jako \u017eena netan\u010d\u00edm sv\u00fdmi dny, jako by to m\u011blo\u00a0b\u00fdt naposled, co vid\u00ed na\u0161e d\u011bti?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Co budou \u017e\u00edt ony? \u017dijme v\u0161ichni dob\u0159e. Co\u00a0\u0159\u00edk\u00e1me i tento m\u016fj text, je proti tomu NIC.<\/p>\n

Foto: D\u011bti z mal\u00e9ho ostrova v N\u00e1rodn\u00edm parku Komodo, Indon\u00e9sie<\/p>\n

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R\u00e1d bych napsal shrnut\u00ed prob\u011bhl\u00e9 akce, kter\u00e9 jsem se aktivn\u011b z\u00fa\u010dastnil. Byl\u00a0j\u00edm dvoudenn\u00ed survival – pu\u0165\u00e1k pro d\u011bti v\u00a0r\u00e1mci akce „Pr\u00e1zdniny na statku“ v\u00a0Sulkovci, organizovan\u00fd Blankou Sud\u00edkovou. Po p\u0159\u00edjezdu m\u011b \u010dekala skupina\u00a0d\u011bt\u00ed od \u010dty\u0159 let a\u017e do v\u011bku n\u00e1ctilet\u00fdch praktikant\u016f. Celkem patn\u00e1ct d\u011bt\u00ed a\u00a0dva t\u00e1tov\u00e9. Nejstar\u0161\u00edmu praktikantovi jsme uleh\u010dili jeho zavazadlo o\u00a0teleskopick\u00fd obu\u0161ek a paralyz\u00e9r […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2650,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-352","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-deti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/janharnos.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/352","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/janharnos.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/janharnos.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/janharnos.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/janharnos.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=352"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/janharnos.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/352\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2653,"href":"https:\/\/janharnos.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/352\/revisions\/2653"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/janharnos.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2650"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/janharnos.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=352"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/janharnos.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=352"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/janharnos.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=352"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}